Everyone knows how to kiss and you know that, right? So, how hard can it
be? Want to know how to kiss good so that you can get things steamed up
with your guy? It is easy to learn the basic mechanics of smooching. It
is actually well-known. You don't have to read the books to do so.
However, making it sensual actually requires more than the basics. You
need to do more action. So how do you do that?
1. Think that lip-locking is like dancing.
Think
it that way except the only thing that's focused is your lips. Like
dancing, there are so many variations to it. It can be done by
passionately mashing one's tongue to the other. Others do it with a bit
of gentle nibbling. There are also people that don't like tongue action.
It actually depends on the couple. What you need to do is to identify
your common ground. You need to know which kind of kiss best suits the
both of you.
2. Think of nothing else.
Don't
get too tense. Don't feel too anxious. Don't worry too much. Do not
think about the tongue action. It would be really awkward for you if
it's in your head. You must not think about it. You shouldn't be too
conscious. What you should do instead is to let your mind set free. If
your mind leads you back to thinking that you are not kissing the right
way and all that then think of your beau. Think as to why you fell in
love with him.
3. There's more to the tongue.
It's
not always about your tongue playing with his. You can feel your
partner with the use of your lips. That's just one way. There are other
things that you can do. You can do some nibbling. You can play with his
lips. There are so many things you can do, the sky is the limit.
4. Don't think that it always leads to sex.
Well,
most of it leads to sex. You shouldn't expect that it is going there.
You know why? Kisses are more passionate if the tongue action is only up
to that. It is more pleasurable because you are only doing that.
Cherish the moment you have. It's time that you let your sensations get
through your thoughts. Be carried away with the sudden gush of emotion.
Every once in awhile, it would be nice if your emotions are placed into
the movements that you have.
5. Don't let your hands get stiff.
It
would be more awkward if you kiss and you just let your hands rest in
your lap. Make your hands move. It would be nice if you touch him
sensually. You can put it in his head. You can massage his scalp. That's
a good thing because there would be a sudden rush of his blood to his
brain. It would help him get all steamed up. You could also run your
fingertips in his neck. You can stimulate him sensually in that way. If
you are in bed with him, you can caress his body slowly and smoothly
like as if you are giving him a massage.